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Those with mental disorders may not realize that
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When Someone You Love Has a Mental Disorder

IT STARTED as a typical weekday morning for the Johnsons.* The family of four was up and dressed for the day’s activities. Gail reminded her 14-year-old son, Matt, that it was past time to catch the school bus. What followed was completely unexpected. Within half an hour, Matt spray-painted a bedroom wall, tried to set fire to the garage, and attempted to hang himself in the attic.

Communication is vital, even though at times it may seem that your comments are misconstrued.
The responses of someone with a mental disorder can be unpredictable, and his or her emotions may seem inappropriate to the situation at hand.
Nevertheless, finding fault with the sufferer’s remarks will only heap guilt on top of depression.

When words fail, sit quietly and listen. Acknowledge feelings and thoughts without condemning. Strive to remain calm. You and your loved one will benefit if you simply and consistently show that you care.

This was true for Matt. A few years later, he expressed his appreciation for those whom he said were “helping me when I didn’t want help.” http://www.watchtower.org/

*Names have been changed.

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